@Kitaisn't that just the argument for everything.
Tbh I never understood this argument. It seems so retarded that all these complex abstractions would appear around getting laid. But I don't read freud or whatever.
Performative behaviour to get motion or pussy or whatever to me is like a sign of like a person that is LITERALLY a DNI. Like no one likes the scene freak at DIY shows trying to get 17 yo pussy at the all ages event. And the exit strategy for that behaviour is like oh this scene all exist to get scene leaders laid. When its like bro, I just wanna make music, why are you making this weird.
Sorry lol all this sex talk is getting to me, I think the amount of performative shit at least in my peripheral is wearing on me wtf. I appreciate when ppl are honest about it, like "yeah, I'm doing this to get girls" but I'm just tired of this to get laid shit. It just makes abusive structures in a hobby I care ab.