The type of girls who really care about Instagram are basically all whores. It’s like a very specific type of girl mostly in the city centres but yeah all of them are disgusting.
I was together with and continue to be around the lot of them and it’s just miserable. The whore phase is recoverable but I wouldn’t trust a bitch unless they deleted the app without question. It does so much more harm to them in the end. But not my place nor do I really fucking care. I do just truly look at them as things to be used unfortunately.
My advice is to not waste your time. Judge them and know what they are. It isn’t cruel to judge a person on the actions they engage in. The true misogynists are elated by the continuing masses of women hijacking themselves through social media. I think some of them can certainly reach a maturity but forever their core, and I truly believe this, is screaming out to delete the app.
Nobody wants to be used or treated like an object. But at some point I have to protect myself from the actions of others. Self objectification is just another thing I want nothing to do with anymore. It will become my problem, my burden and eventually my trauma.
If I’m being honest the best way for me to protect myself right now is to dehumanize in a small but meaningful way: all women who are performatively using social media are whores. Especially if they have a boyfriend!
It really is just a vibe check and certainly not truth, however; it is experience. Marketing yourself as a product does something dark and twisted to the psyche. Your body should not be on display like this. Or at least, I don’t understand how it is at all powerful to do so. To market yourself to a content consumer.
At the end of the day though all of my violence is directed towards the business men who propagated these systems. Yes, people choose to do this to themselves but I grew up with this. It is now my duty to remove myself from what they created. I think that process justifies a slow and public beheading.