third culture is just as much a place for her as it is for me. third culture is a place where the raped do not have to kill to justify their existence. if her and I had had a third culture i dont think any of this would have happened which is why i feel so horrible that I didnt give her a chance when it mattered. i could have given her a chance and everything would have gone differently.

third culture is not a place where a group of like minded people fit in with each other and create. it is not a group chat. it is a place where people to not have to fit in in order to exist in the presence of others. it is a human structure that does not demand the death of the raped to lubricate its machinery.

things will get worse before they get better. but they'll get better